Lesson Learned ~Friendship~

26th aug,09. 0920hour

I was wondering how people treat those SMS they have received? How's the way people read SMS???

Technology did brought us to be closer, however it made us be stranger also. Before the use of SMS is common, we contact via phone which is more "live" to me. At least we can hear each other voice, don't you feel that it was just very close.

As of today, ask yourself, if u wanted to date a fren out, you will call him/her directly or rather SMS to him/her?? I think 9 out of 10 will SMS!! Unfortunately, I am 1 from the 9!! This is just hilarious!! Again, I think the one and the only one reason is "we scared to be turned-down!!!" I think this is just common within the 9!! I am not denying - I do scared!! hehe

Our life style totally changed due to the advancement of technology....

well, come back to the topics now. Ask yourself for the reaction whenever you received SMS from fren and check below circumstance to see if there any similarities with you:-

Junk SMS
I think this is frustrated especially when u are busy or when u are in your sweet dream. This totally suck and u even wanna burn that stupid company. If u were in good mood, u will just simply read and get it deleted.

SMS from Ordinary Fren
It will be impressive sometimes as some frens did sent some so called "encouraging sms" which is sound meaningful and most of the times, you will just "reforward" something else in return. This is so called "ordinary friendship"!! LOL

SMS from People You Like
You will feel happy and will read through the whole message from top to bottom. And try to understand and interpret what they trying to tell u. In fact, you are more happier to reply them.

SMS from VIP in Your Life
I think you are more likely to feel excited especially those message is not forwarded from other. Is really "hand-written", original from the fella. I think this is more likely to brighten your day if you were receive it early in the morning. Eventually, u can even have nice and tight sleep, if happened the SMS reached you before you go to bed.

Well, what if one day, the one who received your SMS is just ignorant. How do you feel? Maybe I say in this way to make it understandable. U treat one of your fren as close fren then u try to share many thing with him/her. However, those SMS u sent out just being treated as normal message where the receiver don't even complete reading the message and you find out. What do you think huh??!!! This really puzzled me a lot. Ofcuz I don't hope you to have such a fren.

In fact, the reality told me, even u treat him/her as close fren, it doesn't means that he/she need to do the same. This is just "one-sided-friendship".

Sometimes, I told myself not to "invest" so much of effort in a relationship with friends as it always turn up with something that really out of my expectation. I ever asked myself, am I expected too much?? haha...I can't even answer to the question. Maybe yes, maybe no. Or I rather say, don't ever insist on my own stand as everyone on earth is just unique creature.

We have to "adjust" our own stand point from time to time, in dissimilar circumstances to make people surrounding happier, ofcuz included ourselves. Doesn't this sound excellent for all?

Well, I've learned again from this and I believe the chances for me to get hurt again seem lessen from now onwards.